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9 January 2007, 3:26:26
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StevanHogg
I need some advice on what could be a life changing decision.

I've suspected for some time now that my girlfriend has been having an affair. The usual signs. Phone rings, I answer, someone hangs up.
She started going out 'with the girls' a lot recently although when I ask which girls it is always "Just some friends from work, you don't know them".
I always look out for her taxi coming home but she always walks down the drive although I can hear a car setting off. As if she has got out of the car round the corner. Why? Is it not a taxi?
I once picked her mobile up just to see what time it was and she went beserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her.

Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my g/f. I think deep downI just didn't want to know the truth but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her.
I decided I was going to hide behind my car which would give me a veiw of the whole street so I could see which car she gets out of. It was whilst crouched behind my car that I noticed rust around my rear wheel arch.

So what should I do? Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from Halfords and try to repair it myself?
10 January 2007, 20:59:30
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jpayan1978
Well I am no expert but it sounds like there is something going on. I mean my husband and I trust each other and we don't get mad if the other wants to go out with friends but we also don't try to hide anything from eachother Everything is out in the open. How long have you been together? You may need to break it off before she does the breaking. If she is cheating then you obviously have more feeling for her then she does for you so just don't let yourself get hurt. You can't build a relationship on distrust, If you can't trust her you should just let it go. Find someone you can trust. Why would you want to be with someone who wants to act like that. Open and honest are perfect relationship tools. Let me know how it goes. Good luck
20 June 2007, 23:14:31
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rafsea50
trade it in,you cant take any chances with rust [:eek:]
23 January 2010, 20:43:31
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Meemozu
my observations:

jpayan1978: female
rafsea50: male

[:biggrin:]
23 January 2010, 21:01:11
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alecs
Maybe, according to their answers. But according to their profile information they're both guys.
14 February 2010, 16:49:09
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Meemozu
But then how come jpayan1978 says, "my husband"?
I doubt anyone on this site is homosexual.
2 March 2010, 0:00:11
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Luciro
The post itself is okay-funny, but the responses are the funniest.
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